Early dating questions

The best first-date conversations feel effortless — but a good question does the heavy lifting. These cards are light enough for date one and interesting enough that you'll actually learn something.

No interrogations, no “where is this going.” Just the kind of questions that turn a good date into a great one.

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All questions in this deck

What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?
What's your go-to comfort meal, and who taught you to love it?
What's something you're weirdly competitive about?
What did you want to be when you were ten?
What's a small thing that instantly wins you over about a person?
What's the best trip you've ever taken — and what made it the best?
Which of your friends' opinions do you trust most, and why?
What's a hill you'll absolutely die on, no matter how trivial?
What does your perfect lazy Sunday look like?
What's something you've changed your mind about in the last few years?
What's the story behind your name?
What are you looking forward to most right now?

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