Questions to ask your partner

Long-term love runs on good questions. These cards go past “how was your day” into the conversations that actually bring you closer — dreams on hold, things left unsaid, and what you hope never changes.

Flip a card over dinner, on a walk, or in the car. One honest answer each, no phones. That's the whole game.

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For your partner

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All questions in this deck

What's something I do that makes you feel most loved — that I might not realize?
If we could relive one day from our relationship, which would you pick?
What's a dream you've quietly put on hold that you'd like us to bring back?
When did you last feel really proud of us as a team?
What's one thing you were nervous to tell me when we first met?
How do you want us to be different from the couples we grew up watching?
What does a perfect ordinary Tuesday look like for us in ten years?
What's a hard season we went through that you're now grateful for?
What do you need more of from me lately — and what do you need less of?
What's something about me you hope never changes?
If money and logistics didn't matter, what would we do next year?
What conversation have we been avoiding that we should probably have?

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